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Dating Accessories - Things a Boy Should Never Leave Home Without

If you have ever been on a bad date or in a situation where something happened and left you stranded you know how important it is to prepare for the unexpected. There are a few things that a boy should never leave home without - especially if he is going on a date. Some of these things will be common sense, and others you may not have considered - though they will be sure to help improve your dates if you let them.

Keep in mind that these tips aren't really in an order of importance. Some of them you will deem to be more important than others, but it will really just depend on your own situation. Some of these you may not use, but there are a few you will (and should) definitely swear by on your dates.

Style
Now, granted, this is something that many boys never leave home without, but it should be mentioned here, anyway, because of its importance. If you are going on a date you want to look your best. You should have on nice clothing, fresh undies, clean shoes, and be all showered up and smelling fresh. Unfortunately, every now and then a guy will go on a date looking like a homeless orphan. It's pretty important to realize this isn't going to get you anywhere in most cases, and if it does you may end up wondering why.

The Essentials
There are certain things you never leave home without, date or not. These are things you usually remember though you may overlook if in a hurry. Keys, pens, paper, and a cell phone top this list. If this is a first date you might want to play the safe route and drive yourself - that way if it's a bad date you can bail. If you allow your date to drive and things go bad you'll be stuck there unless you decide to run out of the building for safety, which may not be a nice thing to do. Keys and cell phone are obvious, I am sure. If you're wondering about pen and paper it's because if you do like him, or find someone else along the way, you'll have a way to keep in contact by writing down their number, email, or whatever they are willing to give you.

The Hygienic Essentials
These things you definitely want to remember just for your own safety and for better chances at having a successful date. Breath mints, or breath spray, is one of the most important things you'll bring. This quick fresh-up will give you a little confidence as you move in for a kiss, or just help to let you know you're smelling fine in that area. Cologne isn't something you necessarily need to leave home with, though it's something you should spray on before you leave. A word of caution though, too much is worse than none. If you can smell yourself really well you over-cologned - and everyone else can smell you more than that. A good trick is to spray a couple sprays of cologne and walk through the mist - this will give you the scent but it won't be overpowering.

The Sex-essentials
Now you knew this one would be on here. It wouldn't be right to mention things you should never leave home without if sex-related items weren't on the list. It's important to always be prepared and in this day and age it means that you need condoms, lube, and similarly related items. Depending on which date you're on you may want to hold off on the intense sex play and make your new friend wait for later, but it's always best to be ready. Anticipation is everything. However, preparation is the most important step to safety.

Money
No matter who is paying for the date, you should always bring a little extra for emergencies. This one cannot be stressed enough! Even bring change for a pay phone just in case your cell phone fails. Bring a little extra for a cab if you didn't drive. Also, it's good to bring enough to cover your own expenses - that way if something goes wrong you can always pay your share and get out.

Dating Charm
If you are going out on a date that you want to turn into a second, or third, date then one of the most important things you can bring is your personality. No one wants to date a dud. Make sure you have some interesting stories and jokes to tell. Keep him amused and the topics light, especially in the beginning when you are giving him a chance to know you. If you go in with nothing to say, and no information to offer, you aren't going to be able to progress and you might even end up ruining a date with a great guy.

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