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Hot or Not: - What Gay Men Can Wear Without Looking Frumpy

Looking good is essential no matter where you go or what you do. The great thing about fashion is that it isn't always about what's in this season, or how much money you have. There are plenty of ways you can look good without spending hundreds on a new suit or a designer label. The important thing is that you look comfortable in your clothing. You want something to suit your own personality because style is relative. If it looks good, and feels good, you will show a side of yourself that helps you to appear stylish. The following tips are all about style and what will make you look good - along with the things to avoid.

Tip 1
- Be Original

Repeat after me…"I am not Denzel Washington, nor am I Ashton Kutcher; Brad Pitt; or George Clooney." Excellent! Now that we have that out of the way you now know  that your style isn't necessarily their style. Just because certain clothing looks good on your favorite celebrity doesn't mean it will look good on you. Buying something just because it looks good on a star is not only silly, it's an expensive mistake to make. Borrowing someone else's style does not make you hot. It makes you unoriginal.

Tip 2 - Shop Outside the Box

If you want to find a great outfit that suits your style - and is definitely one of a kind - it may appear to be harder than you think. You may have to go where some people wouldn't think to go. You will be able to find a lot of fabulous picks at the mall, but the problem is so will everyone else. Consider doing a little online shopping to find those exotic picks that a lot of boys in your area won't have. You could also check the local second hand shops if you are looking for a bargain vintage item.

Tip 3 - Mix & Match

Mix and match your designer duds for a hot look that some won't be expecting. If you are going through your closet and you're not in the mood for any particular designer then work on making your own fashion. Choose some pants by one designer, a shirt or blazer by another, and a belt by a third. Go wild and choose your favorite items which match without regard to designer. If you want to look hot sometimes that means you will need to look at the item and not the tag.

Tip 4 - Color
Variety

Use as many colors of the rainbow as you can. When you open your closet you want to see a variety of colors. There should not be any one specific color that takes up a large portion of your closet. Having a wide variety of colors allows you to match your outfit with the season as well as your mood. If it's winter and you're feeling like a million dollars you can wear a nicely colored top and brighten up the area around you.

Tip 5 - Avoid Fashion Reporters

Finally, you should work to avoid all fashion reporters. As nice as the Melissa Rivers bunch is they do tend to make more fashion faux pas than anyone in history. Learn the appropriate look for you by experimentation. Try on your clothes at the store. You want something that fits your body well and is right for the occasion you are shopping for. For instance, you might want your work clothes to be a little bit more on the comfortably loose side. Meanwhile, you may want your clubbing clothes to be a might tight and seductive.

Tip 6 - Dress to Feel Good

When picking out your clothes be selfish. It's going to be you wearing them, and as long as you feel good in them others will think you look good. The most important thing when choosing your ensemble is that you are satisfied with how you look, and this satisfaction will project a feeling of success and self-appreciation. This attitude, alone, will radiate an air of self-confidence about you that will lead you to the top - no matter where you are.

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