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Gay Body
Language - Learn to Read the Signals You're Being Given
When you are looking for a date, reading body
language is going to be one of the best things you can learn to do. It's
only natural for a person to emit unspoken signals of interest, or lack of,
for another person. Knowing how to read these signals will save you a lot
of time and game playing because you will be able to determine whether the
guy that you're interested in is interested in you, as well, or if he's trying
to nicely run the other way.
If you have ever had trouble discovering whether
the man you like is into you - or not into you - then the following article
is going to help you by giving you a guide to learning what he's saying -
even when he's not saying anything at all. However, you should keep
in mind that no matter how definitive any list like this may seem you have
to realize that all men are different. Therefore these signals are a good
working guideline, but they won't be 100% accurate every time. For example,
a guy who seems to be showing bad body language may just be shy, or a guy
showing off some good signals may be a people person.
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The following signs may show you that he is interested:
· A wide smile
· Sitting with his legs slightly apart
· Playing with your hair
· Rolling up his sleeves
· Touching his face
· Playing with his hair
· Grinning that shows off dimples
· Removing any clothing such as a jacket
· Touching any part of your body
· Hands open, palms showing
· Arms not crossed
Signs which can be taken as flirting and possibly
something more:
· Touching your shoulders, back, or other
areas
· Sitting with his legs open revealingly
(in case you're looking)
· Touching his own body in a suggestive
manner
· Plenty of eye contact
· Moving in to listen to you as you speak
· Slow moving eyes over your form
Remember that chances are if you think he is
flirting then he probably is. This is a good thing if you are interested.
Unfortunately, that may not always be the case ;) Now, these are the signs
to look out for that could mean the end of a shot at romance with a guy.
These signs show a guy may not be interested:
· If he plays with something like a lighter,
or pen, by clicking it
· Points his head towards the ceiling when
smoking
· His eyes move around you instead of looking
at you
· Finger tapping on the tables
· If his hands are shoved in his pockets
· If he slouches excessively
· Arms crossed across his chest
Signs that show defensive behaviors or impending
moments of anger:
· An over-clenched jaw
· Either the crossing of legs or arms or
having both legs and arms crossed
· A thin-lipped smile
· A thin lip line usually from pursed lips
· A continuous rubbing of their head/neck
area
There are, of course, other bad signals you
might want to look for. For example, if someone you have just met is giving
you that piercing stare that makes you feel like you're a happy meal it could
be a signal that he's capable of becoming a stalker. If he is being critical,
or watching your moves, you may notice him move a finger to his lips or his
chin as this is a very critical movement for such body language.
If you think he's lying about something watch
his reaction when he speaks about whatever it is. Touching anything on the
left side of his body, such as tugging on his left ear, or looking left,
is a sign of dishonesty. If he is looking away then it's likely that he may
be feeling nervous. However, it could mean he's shy so be careful with this
one. You don't want to confuse a good guy that is shy and assume that he
is a liar or a jerk.
Keep these things in mind as a basic guideline.
There are complete books written on this subject that you can look at to
determine the meaning of body language. The best thing you can do, though,
is to use your own good judgment and instinctive intuition. If you're getting
a certain vibe try going with that and see how it plays out - and, most
importantly, have fun!
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